If you’re looking for ways to reignite that spark, why not throw a little danger and excitement into the mix!
Think back to when you and your partner first met. How did you feel and what did you do? You probably made more of an effort to keep things fresh, and thrived on mystery and novelty. So if your relationship is beginning to feel a little stale and mundane, it’s time to make a change. If you’re willing to put in the time and effort to cultivate deep intimacy, then you will be able to rekindle the burning desire you experienced at the beginning of your relationship. So here are some adventurous date ideas to help inspire you and mix things up.
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Book A Staycation
Couples tend to have more sex when on holiday, because they aren’t disrupted by everyday life. But who has time to book a holiday every few weeks to keep the passion alive? Instead, why not book a staycation? It’s easy to organise and (to add even more excitement) you can book it as a surprise for your partner. If you’re looking for the perfect romantic getaway, as a special treat, I personally like the Upper House. It has a modern, tranquil feel, with spacious rooms and a beautiful bathtub overlooking the Hong Kong skyline. It’s also made checking-in extremely convenient because it can be done in your room. Then it’s up to you to make things adventurous. You can enjoy a 24-hour private dining experience in your own room, or simply go to the 49th floor to enjoy an exquisite dinner at Café Grey Deluxe. And what better way to end your romantic evening than with an in-room massage to help you feel truly relaxed and comfortable. It’s a great treat for any couple, and provides a beautiful space to reconnect intimately.
Or why not try the newly opened Up-Otel in Yau Ma Tei. It’s the perfect place to go and escape everyday life. Billing itself as “playful, yet sophisticated,” it promises to provide an intimate space for couples. To add some mystery, why not do a little role play? Pretend you’ve only recently met, you’ve just been on a few dates, and now you’re ready to meet in the bedroom. Notice the feelings that conjures up – nervousness, curiosity, lust? Now bring these emotions into the bedroom and make love again as if it were the first time, by exploring each other’s bodies deeply and profoundly.
Visit A Sex Shop
Why not have your next adventure date at a sex store? I love Coco Sally’s Intimate Lifestyle Store. All its stores are tastefully decorated, and aim to empower women and couples sexually. It’s the perfect place to go and get adventurous together. You can get some advice from its knowledgeable sales staff, or you can simply browse the items by yourselves to see what would excite you and your lover. Why not try the WE-Vibe? You can use We-Vibe Sync together during sex or when you’re apart, anywhere in the world. Or what about getting some silk ties and a blindfold to heat things up and experience your very own version of “Fifty Shades of Grey“? It will keep you guessing what will happen next and have you lusting for more. Plus it’s a great way to create mystery, novelty and anticipation inside the bedroom.
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Try A Dance Class
Create your next adventure date in a dance studio. As Shakira says, hips don’t lie, and it’s a well-known fact that dance skills are correlated to bedroom skills. So if you can move those hips beautifully while clothed and standing up, just imagine the possibilities in the bedroom later on in the night! Dancing can also be a great form of foreplay. Imagine feeling your lover’s breath on your neck while clinging tightly to them on the dance floor. It’s even more exciting because you can’t give in to your desires until the end of the night. Be sure to pick a dancing style that is sexy, then check out a studio. Dance Trinity offers a good four-week beginner’s Salsa and Tango workshop.
If you’re looking for an adventure that will have you reminiscing for years to come, there’s nothing quite as connecting for a couple as jumping out of a plane together. Just think of all the adrenaline you’ll feel after you have been falling through the sky. And when you meet in the bedroom afterwards, you’ll feel the oxytocin and dopamine flow through you. A perfect out-of-the-box love potion for your relationship! So if you’re game, plan your skydiving date now with Skydive HK.
Get A Coaching Session
If you haven’t already guessed, I genuinely believe that we can have it all! We can be in a long-term relationship, raise kids, build a thriving family life, and create a deeply loving and passionate relationship. However, it will take commitment to make this happen – that’s where I come in. My job is to help women and couples experience complete confidence, sensual pleasure and deep intimacy in their relationships. I’ve created many tools, techniques, and strategies to help couples feel strongly connected both inside and outside the bedroom. You’ll learn what it feels like to touch, and be touched, in a way that honours your body and your desires. Every journey begins with a single step, so why not start your sexual journey today by taking my quiz. It will help you discover your erotic love language, so that you can begin rebuilding the romance between you and your partner.